wedding blessings on ibiza Site Map Made with Xara Remember to always say 'I love you'. Sometimes we forget what is most important in life.  The most important things are to love, and be loved.  That is our purpose. When love is new, we tell each other frequently how we love them; when our children are small, we reassure them by reminding of our love for them.  As they grow older it's probably not very 'cool' to be told by Mum or Dad that they love you.  Mums and Dads too may find it slightly disconcerting to tell a teenager that they love them. At an early age I heard a story of the sadness over a  tragic unexpected parting, where there had been no chance of a fond farewell. In later life, again, I witnessed a father’s grief at having lost his adult son.  This was at a time when my children were little. I realised that such a thing could happen to me, and just how devastating it would be. I determined then that whenever we parted I would tell them I loved them.  My children are now adults, and despite a little awkwardness (on both sides) when they were teenagers, we continue to hug and kiss whenever we meet or part.  We tell each other we love them, as a parting whenever we speak. This page was prompted by my recent reading of a eulogy by a man to his beloved late wife who had suddenly and recently died.   He expressed sadness and regret at their rushed parting on that morning of her death, having not made the time to say that they loved each other. I felt so very very sad for him, not to have heard and hold that treasure of  “I love you” as her final words. So………..   Remember to always say 'I love you'. Beautiful Ibiza weddings, blessings and other ceremonies blessings-on-ibiza.com